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CARRY THE LOAD

You may never get the opportunity to run for 253 yards against one of your rivals, but you can carry the load in your own way for those who depend on you. It all boils down to taking responsibility and doing what is expected of you.

The first step is to own your thoughts, actions, and words. You alone have the ability to control your thoughts and what comes out of your mouth. Be a good role model and talk like an adult. Never blame others for your actions. When you push responsibility to a family member or a business partner, you set yourself up as the victim, which lessens the chances of changing your situation. When you take ownership, you put yourself in a position to make alterations.

You can also carry the load when you stop complaining. When an event that is out of your control and impacts you in a negative way takes place, try to look at the big picture and learn from the situation. Perhaps one of the biggest challenges in taking on responsibility is to not take things personally. Most of the time, circumstances are not about you but about others. Think about ways you can make a difference. Always demonstrate good intentions, live in the present and not the past, and be happy. When you do these things, you will carry the load for those around you. You will look for the good in people and be more enjoyable to be around. Go Blue!